Inner Circle

It’s funny, ha ha how the soccerboy is very particular in who is allowed in our house. And God help you if you want to come to one of our “family” functions.

That is just not allowed. It is for immediate family only!


According to the soccerboy.




I am not sure when this all started. His issue with having outsiders allowed in. It reminds me of that movie “Meet the Faulkers”. The inner circle of trust. The soccerboy fully believes in that.


I don’t know if its cause most of his life we are always traveling for soccer and hardly ever home. So that when we are home he doesn’t want outsiders allowed in.


Now it’s not like the tattoo girl has groups of friends over all the time. Mostly she has a friend or two over. And now a days she just has her boyfriend over. No biggie right? He is not new to our family. They have been together for 2 years.


One would think. That it wasn’t that big of a deal.


The soccerboy just does not agree with this.
It’s not like he is anti-social or anything. He has time he spends hanging out with friends, sometimes at our house and sometimes at other people’s house.


So why is it then such a big deal for people to come to our house? And really it’s not just our house but if we go to my moms house or out to dinner. The soccerboy is very particular about who is allowed to attend.


And with the tattoo girls personallity of always bringing home the “wounded” so to speak, it definitely causes some what of a problem/friction around our house.


We have had several discussions with the soccerboy about this.


Am I missing something here? What the hell is his problem?

Does anyone know someone like this?

And what is the fix?