Chasing DICKS

This is a re-post. I posted this not too long ago. and then took it down.

My reason for taking it down the first time was a good friend of mine wasn't too happy with the way I worded things the first time around.

So I decided to re-write this just a little, to better express what I ment when I say "Chasing Dicks". 

 I originally wrote this because I have a couple of good girl friends who are in a relationship sorta, if you don't count the fact that the guys are not committed. and appear to play games.

WTF. SO it pissed me off enough I thought I should write about it. HERE!

I'm not saying that all guys are like this.

SOOOOO today I'm gonna talk about some shit with you that might piss someone off.

Now don’t get your panties in a wad, that is totally not my intention here.

This is mostly a fact finding mission.

And it allows me to bitch about some shit. I hate to see a good friend be shit on. Ya know.

SO Are we cool?

Ok, So I’m a fucking realist. You all know this.

I know that most, if not ALL men think with their dicks.

That’s cool. I'm good with that.

I have also heard that they just can’t help it.       R I G H T.

Wink Wink

It may even be a proven fact. (Possible?)

That men think with their dicks (all fuckin day long).

(I’ll check into that, maybe do a survey or some shit and get back to you)

So, again I’m cool with that.

I love cocks. 

 I’m a very sexual person myself.

They make me happy. The cocks that is.

Men, sometimes not so much.

I’m just sayin

My big question is, Should you trust a guy that is overly sexual?  (or are there excuses for men like that? To be able to have many lovers, cause they need it sooooo much). 
I mean I know I need a lot of sex to keep me happy.  
 J u s t  s a y i n. (should I not be trusted?)

Surely you should be able to trust anyone whether overly sexual or not.
I mean how can you go thru life if you can’t trust? Right?

I suppose if you are getting what you really need from the person your with, then there would be no need to look elsewhere. RIGHT!

This is the big question.

I mean it’s all good when you’re getting “some” sweet hot ass sex.

I would like to think that I if you're that good that you would not be forgotten.

But then again thats the realist in me coming out.

Sometimes even I get a little worried that someone else has the better put together package.

What the fuck! I am only human. I’m not perfect all the time.

Seriously, I’ve been told there are signs. (from a good friend of mine)

When a guy is into you and then not sooooo much cause he's pre-occupied somewhere else. or when he just isn't going to commit EVER.
This is a two part question.

Part I is:

What are the reasons, the real reasons for when a guy is into a girl one moment and then the next day not so much.

I wanna know, the things a guy feels he just can't come out and say to a girl that he is done with.

These are some that I came up with.  That a guy would like to say but never does. 

That’s why the "string along" happens.
You know so they can keep that back door open,  for just in case later they might want "it" again.

-Sorry babe I’m out cause you just weren’t that good;

-It's not you, it’s me;

-I need it more than once a day and you weren’t available;

-The chase is over, sorry not interested anymore;

What cha think? Sound realistic? I may be totally off base here.   AM I?

The Part II is:
What the hells up with the guy who won't commit?

You know the one who dates the girl for over a year or more but yet :
- won't move in with her;
-won't tell his friends or work buddies hes dating her;
-won't be seen out, but occasionally in public with her;
-goes dutch when he takes her out to eat;
-is more into himself than her.

But yet he still expects the s e x.

Can you please help me/us women understand?  Cause fuck, sometimes us women just wanna know what the hell is up without any bullshit or games.

Just the plain hard facts.

So can you help me/us ? Understand?

 I'm seriously

not bashing men here

For real.

Its just sometimes

 you gotta

 throw it out there

and

see what ya get
back.

Wrenchmonkees on Forever2Wheels

Band of the week- Supertramp

I have been listening to this band since, I don’t know probably 1988.  Love them. I know all the words to the "Breakfast in American" album.
Hee hee, I said album.

Not sure what it is that I love so much about them.  It just makes me feel so many things when I listen to them.

So I thought that I should share some music now and then that is older and a little out of the norm.
Hope you enjoy them as much as I do.

Supertramp

A British band whose music has spanned the genres of rock, progressive rock, and art rock. The band's work is marked by the use of spiritual and philosophical lyrics and the distinctive voice of co-founder Roger Hodgson.

They were also well known for their prominent use of the Wurlitzer electric piano. While the band garnered little respect from music critics, they enjoyed considerable commercial success, releasing a series of top-selling albums in the 1970s and early 1980s; 1979's Breakfast in America, their most popular album, had sold more than 18 million copies by 1990.

The band attained superstardom in the United States, Canada, most of Europe, South Africa, Australia and Brazil, while enjoying moderate commercial success in their native UK.

They were one of the first groups to be signed to the UK branch of A&M Records and their first album, Supertramp, was released on 14 July 1970 in the UK and Canada only (it was first issued in the US in 1977.

Current members

• Rick Davies – vocals, keyboards, harmonica, composition (1970–1988, 1996–2002, since 2010)
• John Helliwell – vocals, woodwinds, keyboards, synthesisers (1973–1988, 1996–2002, since 2010)
• Bob Siebenberg – drums, percussion (1973–1988, 1996–2002, since 2010)
• Carl Verheyen – guitars, percussion, backing vocals (1985–1986, 1996–2002, since 2010)
• Cliff Hugo – bass (1996–2002, since 2010)
• Lee Thornburg – trombone, trumpet, keyboards, backing vocals (1996–2002, since 2010)
• Jesse Siebenberg – percussion, vocals, guitar, keyboards (1997–2002, since 2010)
• Gabe Dixon – keyboards, tambourine, vocals (since 2010)
• Cassie Miller – background vocals (since 2010)

Past members

• Roger Hodgson – vocals, guitars, keyboards, bass, cello, flute, composition (1970–1983)
• Dougie Thomson – bass, backing vocals (1972–1988)
• Mark Hart – vocals, keyboards, guitar (1985–1988, 1996–2002)
• Tom Walsh – percussion (1996–1997)
• Kevin Currie – percussion (1971–1973)
• Richard Palmer-James – vocals, electric guitar, acoustic guitar, balalaika (1969–1971)
• Robert Millar – percussion, harmonica (1970–1971)
• Dave Winthrop – woodwinds, vocals (1970–1973)
• Frank Farrell – bass, keyboards, backing vocals (1971–1972)

Discography

• Supertramp (1970)
• Indelibly Stamped (1971)
• Crime of the Century (1974)
• Crisis? What Crisis? (1975)
• Even in the Quietest Moments... (1977)
• Breakfast in America (1979)
• ...Famous Last Words... (1982)
• Brother Where You Bound (1985)
• Free as a Bird (1987)
• Some Things Never Change (1997)

• Slow Motion (2002)

Chevrolet Meister-Meister!

Valentines Blunder- Damn those delivery drivers

Heres a little story about how my Valentines day went down.

Bright and early Monday morning the sportsman sends me an email. To which is says, do you have something to say to me? Hmmmmm

Well fuck I don’t know.  I'm sitting at my desk sweating bullets. I'm thinking what the fuck? What is he talking about????

(You know text and email are really hard to tell what tone of voice is being used)

So I reply "Um, thank you”.  Since he left me a really cute card and mini snow globe on the counter before he left.

That was that. Not another word.

So now I’m thinking that I've been busted for past Indiscretions. I'm shitting my pants. Then the receptionist at my work calls me down saying I have a flower delivery. Hmmmmmmmm

Ok, so as I am heading down to the lobby and I’m thinking ok, theres a possibility that these  flowers are from 1 of 3 people.
(yes, I know that sounds bad)

So I get down to the lobby and the receptionist is on the phone, I see only one set of flowers on the counter. Let me just say they aren’t ugly,

 But

not the type of flowers I would want. They are all red with carnations and some roses.

I hate roses.

I am a tulip/gerber daisy kinda gal. I'm thinking to myself, the sportsman knows I hate roses. Surely he didn’t send me these flowers.

So I’m waiting and I decide to read the card and see who they are from.

As I skim read to the bottom I see the part where it says love DOUG.

WHO the fuck is DOUG????

Oh my . DO I have a stalker? I don’t know anyone named Doug.
What the hell.

At this point, I am totally freaking out. Finally the receptionist is off the phone and I tell her. That I don’t know any “Doug”.

So we look further on the card, they aren't even for me.
They were delivered to the wrong company. W h e w!

Sooooooo freakin glad. I was really worried.

However, later in the day a  2^nd delivery of flowers showed up for me.

They indeed were from the sportsman.
They were also an awesome vase full of white tulips with one red rose in it.

Now that’s what I call a proper flower arrangement. And now I know what the sportsman ment when he ask if "I had anything to say".

He was talking about the flowers.

Double Whew, in one day.

Damn that delivery driver.

 He could of really caused me some problems.

What if I had confessed.

The day could of turned out

alot different.

Radio

The Road OVER Traveled

You always hear the saying
"the road less traveled",
 well
what about the road that is “over” traveled?

I feel like sometimes I keep exepericing the same damn things in life and I would like to think I learned my freakin lesson

but
 yet I find myself right back in the same damn situation.

On that same damn road.

Am I self-sabotoging? Someone around here has mentioned that before.

Is it not random that I end up with or meet people that will eventually hurt me?

I like to think that I’m not seeking out people who I know will not live up to my standards or won't treat me with the respect I deserve.

I think its time to take a new road.
And
stop traveling down the same fucked up one.
SO today is the day.

You know I am always thinking.  Trying to figure things out. (Once in awhile I would love to just shut my brain off)

So what I came up with is instead of avoiding things that I need to change.
(by pretending they are not there)

I have decided to listen to what others have to say. Take into consideration the advice they are giving me.

While it feels good and all to deal with these things head on, it’s also a little freakin scary.

I read over 30 blogs a day. and while I comment on most of them ,alot of them I just read and take away small things that have actually helped me deal with things in my own life.
I would like to mention one that really helps me. You should check her out. I read her blog every day. Life as a Classroom.

SO I guess with all my rambling on I’m trying to say that I am making a concious effort to take a  d i f f e r e n t  path this time. 

The one that doesn’t leave me with pain, sorrow, disappointment, or hate.

Hate is such a bad word. It's not a good way to live your life.

I'm really good at this self analizing shit.

 I think it might actually be working.

Check back with me in a week

and I'll let you

know how its all workin out.